Visitors Comments

Apart from receiving many letters and stories I have also received visitors comments about my site.  I have added them to this page for you to read.

If you would like to make a comment about anything, feel free to post a comment on my BLOG

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 I am happy to have found your site, I just found out about my son 4 days ago. - Thank you  Y.H.

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Thank you so much for your site. I'm 20 and have just recently (this
afternoon) come out to my mother. I'm planning to come out to my brother and dad tomorrow. Your site has made it easier, by giving more confidence, to come out.  It's great that you are so open and understanding of your sons.

Thanks for your site. I will refer my parents/bro to it as I feel they will
learn my point of view about being gay, from a parents point of view and
realise they are not alone :).   - Charlie

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Thank you for the lovely home page. It was helpful!- Kind Regards,  Sandi

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I'm not quite sure how I found it, but I've had a good read of your site today.
 
I only wish my parents were net-savvy enough to be referred to such a resource 10 years ago.  They took me to a counsellor for some 'conversion', who in turn ended up helping them make some adjustments .. But you've heard all these stories before!
 
Life still isn't 'smooth' with them now, and I think being a gay only-child has a hell of lot to do with it - but I'd say that your site has certainly helped a few parents along the way.

Your boys are very lucky to have such an understanding mum - keep up the good work and have a happy Mother's Day!     - Kind regards,  Matt

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My name is Jennifer. I am a attending college to earn my special education teaching degree. I am taking an English Composition course in which I am writing a paper about the services that Planned Parenthood offers our teenagers.  In the middle of my research, I came across your web site and started reading!
WAY TO GO!!!!!   Kudos to you!!!!!

You should be very proud of yourself for starting the website that you did. I believe that no matter what we have to accept one another. Working with special needs children and having a child who is confined to a wheel chair myself, I have seen the ugly side of people in my community. I know that gays and lesbians experience hatred all of the time. The more resources that are out there , the more stories that are shared , the better. Just by reading the information on your site, you put a smile on my face and a song in my heart.
Thank you for standing up and supporting the one you love. Thank you for taking a risk and for going against the grain. People like you are the people that keep our world a better place.   - Jennifer

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WOW~~I have been going crazy on all the gay sites like yourself when you found out your sons were gay... I came across yours and thank you so much for having it on here.
I just needed to write to you and thank you for your site. - sincerly   Bev

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First off let me say what a help your Site has been to me.
Your friend and fan of site,     - "Judas"

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I would just like to say how amazing your site is.  It is  truly a gift to many people, and you should be proud! Thank-you.  To know that there is support means the world for people like me.  - Ryan :O)

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Just to say thanks for a really great and informative site. I am a gay male and am very lucky to also have an accepting family such as yours. If more parents could be like you, things would be much easier for people to come out.
 
Recently, my sister has found out that her daughter is also gay.  She has been very accepting, but devastated, questioning herself.   I have mailed her extracts from your site and I'm sure they will help her to deal with her own demons.  Keep up the good work - Gary

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My name is martin, and I live in the UK. I am a 20 yr old gay lad and I seen your web page I think its  really good and helpful.  Thank you for your easy to read web site. You are an inspiration to me. Thank you for putting your story on the net and sharing it.  - Good nite  Tim

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My name is Jasmine and I came across your site in search for some relief articles on how to deal with discrimination against gays and lesbians. I read your site and I was amazed how it was well put together. I wish the people at my school felt the same way you did because I am going through alot of discrimination at my school. I can honestly say that your words were music to my ears and gave me some sense of encouragement to keep striving for the best regardless of what people may feel about me being a lesbian. It's my life and no one is livig it but me, I am who I am and God loves me no matter what.- Thanks so much  Jasmine

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I write you from france and first I wish you a very happy new year then I like your site ; I have many gay friends and I know how much it's difficult for them sometimes with their family and life ande I try to help the more I can I love them just like they are....and it huts me to see people attitude sometimes.- thanks for all you do...    Patricia

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I want to thank you for a wonderful web site.  It has helped me a great deal in learning how to come out to my parents at the age of 30.                  - Thanks again!  Gnubie75

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Thank you for taking the time to write and create such a wonderful website, informative and sincere. I am a gay man in my early forties living in the north east of the US. I was born in England, raised in Australia, and travelled extensively. I have an identical twin brother who resides near by. It thrills me to know that there are people as yourself who are supportive of gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, and transgender folks who have a right to live a full life as the next person.

I am comforted in the knowledge that my father, in his mid-seventies, has accepted my lifestyle, embracing me as just one of his four sons, telling me he loves me and wishes nothing but love, joy, and happiness for me. During my teenage years, I suffered mercilessly at the hands of peers, even an older brother, however, as I reflect on my life, I don't believe I would change much of it at all. In closing, I would like to praise you at this special season. I hope that more parents accept their children for who they are, celebrate their individuality, and embrace them as you have. I also hope that the God of our fathers softens the hearts of the leaders of the world, especially of this land, and create an environment for all people to live in harmony. I thank you again.  - Sincerely,  Ash

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What a wonderful site you have!   Thanks for your site and good luck from all of us here, in Amsterdam.
 - Mories

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